Randy Owen and his mother: ‘I thought he’d be a fine young man’

Owen, 51, lives with his wife, Kelly, in a Tudor-style mansion just down the road from where he grew up and where his mama still lives — on a Lookout Mountain farm not far from Little River Canyon. He raises cattle, like his daddy before him. His only regret is that his father, Gladstone Owen, died just as Alabama was beginning to make its mark on country music with hits such as “Mountain Music,” “Close Enough To Perfect” and the unofficial state anthem, “My Home’s in Alabama.”

Martha Owen, 69, is a simple woman who wears her salt-and-pepper hair in a high bun and is known all over the county for her home-made apple pies. She lives in a modest red-brick house, with a vegetable garden tilled by her only son. Her two daughters, Reba and Rachel, live with their families within shouting distance. When the whole clan gets together, they love to tell stories about growing up poor, in a house filled with laughter and music and love.

Mrs. Owen recalls how her son, as a boy, loved to whittle with knives, which he was forever losing in the rough and tumble playground of the family farm. So Randy’s parents tied his knife around his neck. Family photos depict a tar-topped lad romping in the grass, his knife flopping from a chain in the wind

“When the little ol’ feller was about 8 years old, we had a big kitchen in our house, with a table set out in the middle of the floor. When I’d get after him about something, Randy would take off, and me and him would go round and round the table,” Mrs. Owen recalls.

“We had screen doors, but they didn’t latch, and he’d run outside so I couldn’t catch him. But one day, he’d done something I was after him about, and I took off after him, and I meant I was going to catch him. We went round and round, and he ran to that door, and it so happened that somebody had fixed the latch on it. I think we made two circles around the table and he hit that screen door and what he did, he broke it in half. His feet went under the bottom, and his head branded against that screen. It burnt a screen print on his head.

“I didn’t want to whip him then, poor little feller. I was so glad he wasn’t hurt. He wore that brand for several days.”

Owen and his mother laugh and laugh at that story.

Another of Mrs. Owen’s favorite stories involves her husband’s father, whom Randy called Paw Paw. The old man smoked a pipe and kept his home-grown tobacco loose in his overalls pocket. One day, a rifle cartridge got mixed in with that pocket of tobacco.
“It was cold that day, and he was packing that pipe, and somehow or another, he packed that pipe up with tobacco and the rifle cartridge,” Mrs. Owen says. “Gladstone said his daddy lit that pipe, and it went kaboom, and he saw his daddy standing there with a stem in his mouth.”
That, Mrs. Owen says, is good enough reason not to smoke.
Owen describes his Mama as “the hardest working person I’ve ever known. One of the vivid memories I have of my mother was when she was pregnant with my baby sister Rachel, and it was about 100 degrees outside, and we were out picking peppers. I remember thinking, ‘I don’t know how she does this.”’
Owen’s older daughter, 23-year-old Alison, just graduated from Jacksonville State University and plans to go to medical school. His son, Heath, 19, plays baseball at Samford University. And younger daughter Randa, now 12 and in school in Fort Payne, is a cowgirl who shows her prized heifers at cattle roundups.
When she was a young mother, Mrs. Owen says, she never gave much thought to what her son might one day do for a living. “I was too busy to worry about things like that.” But she knew in her heart what he would become.

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